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THE SUNDAY TRIBUNE Sept 2 2007
Where love's middle-aged dream comes true
"IS this the way I go to get a wife?", asks the man outside the Matchmaker pub. He looks to be in his mid-60s and is sweating profusely as he half-smiles, half-leers at me. "I hear there's great pickings tonight."He watches hungrily as an incongruously glamorous hen party walks past us. "I think I'm going to go chance my arm here. Sure, no harm, no foul." He lumbers off after his unsuspecting prey.It's 1am on Saturday morning in L isdoonvarna and the pub is the centre of activity for the first night of the annual matchmaker festival, which is taking over the tiny Clare town from this weekend until 7 October. Amorous (read: on the pull) singles and happily-married couples converge on Lisdoonvarna's 15 bars.
It's a strange place. Less than 10 minutes after I arrive here early on Friday afternoon, I get my first proposition from a man who stops me in the middle of the main street."Would you like to come for a drink with me?" asks Carl, a bachelor in his late 50s from Limerick.When I suggest it's a bit early in the afternoon to be hitting the bar, he persists undeterred. By the time I break away, five minutes later, I've inexplicably promised him a dance at the hotel later. He's easily old enough to be my father.
But in Lisdoonvarna, the normal rules of dating don't apply. It is not only assumed that anyone on their own is on the lookout for a partner, but it is accepted. The atmosphere is like that of a teenage disco . . . simmering with anticipation and only slightly less hormone-fuelled.
As there don't seem to be any official events on in the town yet, I use the time to take a trip out to the home of Willie Daly, the renowned local matchmaker, who will be working his magic on hopeful singletons later on in the festival."It can be very difficult to meet people nowadays, " the fourth-generation matchmaker explains."There's six or seven men for every one women out here so there's a lot of competition."Women's needs have changed.They're more independent, they have higher expectations. But men still just want someone who's going to be like their mother . . . good around the house and who'll show them lots of love."Back in the town, a crowd is beginning to gather at the Hydro Hotel. In the disco, the one-man-band is playing 'Spanish Lace', as four or five middle-aged couples waltz sweetly across the big dance floor. There are small groups of women sitting at side-tables, watching the dancers."There's a big difference between the younger crowd and the older crowd, " says Albert Lawlor from Limerick. He should know . . . he's been coming to the festival for the past 36 years with his wife Cecily."The younger people want sex almost immediately, but with the older crowd here, it's more about enjoying the dancing and meeting up with people you'll only see once a year.""It can be a bit overpowering when you walk in, " says Mandy Cooke from Drumree. "You know the men are all looking you up and down. But that's nothing, the whole thing is brilliant."
THE IRISH TIMES Sept 2 2006
Europe's biggest singles festival' under way
Gordon Deegan
The Lisdoonvarna Matchmaking festival, "Europe's biggest singles festival", gets under way in the otherwise quiet north Clare town this weekend.Willie Daly, resident matchmaker for the past 40 years, said yesterday: "It is like a wild party. It is a mad month of great atmosphere. There are busloads of women from England on their way here looking for a partner and a little romance."He said: "There is nowhere like it in the world. There is nowhere else where you can walk up to a strange woman and ask her to marry you and not get a slap in the face."Mr Daly said that dancing in the spa town would start at 11am each day and continue during the afternoon and night.Mr Daly said: "One woman came from England last year. She was good looking, but she only had one leg and wasn't expecting to be asked to dance at all and within the first 24 hours, she had three proposals of marriage."Mr Daly added: "People owe it to themselves to find happiness and they shouldn't be afraid of happiness and being alone is not a happy station. But people shouldn't be thinking that there are men and women out there ready to break down their doors, they have to get out there and look for it."
THE IRISH INDEPENDENT Aug 26 2005
Love is in the air...in Co . Clare where hordes of single women are heading for Lisdoonvarna this week with only one thing on their mind: to find a perfect man. Katy Guest reports
This small spa town in Co Clare is going to be transfigured today. The first coaches will roll in, the boats will dock and the planes will roar down the runway at Shannon airport, with a thousand ears attuned to the sounds of their engines. Women will arrive by the coach, plane and boat- load, and they will all be looking for love among the lucky menfolk of Lisdoonvarna.
The town's 150-year-old matchmaking festival is the subject of folklore. It inspired Christy Moore to sing about "hairy chests and milk-white thighs", and Brendan Shine to write a song called Catch Me If You Can. "I'm awful shifty," he said, "for a man of 50. I'm off for the craic, the women and the beer." Things have changed in the world of dating since landowners used to bring their daughters into town and haggle over dowries of cows. Speed-dating and chatrooms have replaced the annual ceilidh for maids looking for a partner. But Lisdoonvarna's matchmaker, Willie Daly, is still doing things the traditional way."I've been a matchmaker for close on 40 years now," he says. "My father and grandfather had done it before me, and I wasn't planning on doing it, but I could see there was a need for it in the area."The lot of men has not been an easy one of late. "Women in the last 20 years have become considerably more independent. Psychologically, their mind dwells in other places. The grass is always greener. Women travel to the cities and men stay at home. It is very difficult for them."This year, though, the bachelors can afford to be optimistic. "There has been quite a lot of interest in local men from women in eastern countries - Thailand, the Philippines and the like," says Daly. "These are sensitive women and very, very beautiful. They make marvellous wives."
THE SUNDAY INDEPENDENT Sunday May 18 2008
FG needs you, Lisdoonvarna
By Brendan O'Connor
Sunday May 18 2008
POOR old Fine Gael. At this stage they must be wondering if they should go back to the days of getting rid of their own leaders instead of getting rid of other people's leaders.
Last Friday's MRBI poll concurred with our own Quantum Research poll of last week in showing that Fine Gael did Fianna Fail a huge service by first convincing everyone that if Bertie Ahern went it would help Fianna Fail hugely and then by aiding and abetting in getting rid of Bertie.
Fine Gael's analysis proved correct and their solution proved to be the right one too. Bertie went and Fianna Fail's support went up by a quarter. With enemies like Enda Kenny who needs friends?
Fine Gael, for its part, has somehow lost about a sixth of their support.
Coming at the end of what was, according to the media, the darkest year ever for Fianna Fail, it is an extraordinary result. It makes you wonder how badly Fine Gael need Fianna Fail to cock up before they could make a bit of capital out of it.
However the demographic breakdown of the poll does, perhaps, point to a way forward for the blueshirts. Fine Gael is apparently strongest in the 18 to 24 category, followed by the crucial over 65s market. Strangely they are weakest in the 25 to 34 age group. It seems that anyone who is not a Fine Gaeler aged between 18 and 24 has no heart and anyone who is not a Fianna Failer aged between 25 and 34 has no brain. Or something like that.
FG also attracts twice as much support in the farming community as it does anywhere else. The party is apparently equally attractive to men and women, kind of asexual. All this information points in one direction: matchmaking. Fine Gael needs to reinvent itself as an introductions agency, a way for 65-plus farmers to meet 18 to 24-year-old young ones.
At the very least Fine Gael needs to tweak its policies to fit in more with its popularity among the OAP set. New policy documents this year could include: "That was all fields when I first came to live here", "You're all just after my money" and "The young people these days have too much money. If someone gave us a shilling we'd have bought enough sweets to last us a week." New legislation could be brought in about popular music, proclaiming that it is all just noise.
Election promises could include that Fine Gael will get up and give people their seats on the bus and that there will be less fun in general. Admittedly, this could alienate Fine Gael's other stronghold among the 18 to 24-year-olds but they'll be gone once they hit the 24 to 35 category anyway. And the young ones will be too busy washing the ageing farmers' long johns and drying them on a mangle to vote anyway.
Brendan O'Connor
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